Well,
make no mistake about it – 2013 was a difficult year for us here at The Jade Sphinx. A cluster of calamities sapped our attention,
our energy and our peace of mind. And
yet …
Well, if
you remember last year’s message, expect the mixture as before. We here are happy to be alive, delighted in
the time spent with those we love, and constantly amazed at the ways in which
our lives play out. I am convinced that
those who are negative, or ironic, or simply jaded (a repellant attitude, if
ever there was one), are missing a vital fact of life – that while it’s often
harrowing, it’s always surprising and definitely worth living.
Though
uniquely American, Thanksgiving has always been our holiday least associated with
ideology or creed. It is simply a day
set aside to be thankful for the many good things in our lives. And the celebratory meal represents the
bounty that is our lives – the many courses, tastes and phases of a unique and
sensual experience. Though nonreligious,
Thanksgiving is sacramental, best shared with people we love.
Thanksgiving
has also always been the gateway to the holiday season, and I look forward to
this year’s revelries with particular relish.
Christmastime is the best moment to stop and contemplate the quiet
miracle of our lives, and that seems more imperative to us this year than
ever. Though we are assaulted daily by
cultural and political noise, we continue to find grace notes and things of
great beauty that make life meaningful.
I am frankly amazed at some of the magnificent novels I’ve read this
year, the pictures that I’ve seen, the music that I’ve heard and the simple
human kindnesses I’ve witnessed. The fine
arts provide succor and inspiration, validation and exploration, relief and
insight, and the consolations of the arts have been something quite wonderful
this year. But all of this bounty means
nothing without human connection. The arts
may enhance and help define these connections, but they can never supplant
them.
Happy
Thanksgiving – and onward to a warm, rewarding and nurturing holiday season.